“A very long time in the past, you talked about you’d by no means shaved or waxed your bikini line,” wrote a reader named Emma. “May you elaborate on why? I’ve at all times questioned!” Nicely, I’m completely satisfied to share…
My reply is de facto easy: I’ve delicate pores and skin, and I’m a wuss, haha. I don’t need to go right into a waxing place and get my hair ripped out; it sounds so painful, omg. Plus, I really feel tremendous having hair there, and my feeling is that if I’m going to mattress with somebody, I need us each to really feel so excited and heat and completely satisfied and shut that we’re tremendous with regardless of the actual hair scenario is on both of our our bodies. One caveat: I don’t have numerous hair, and I believe my reply may be completely different if I had extra rising outdoors my swimsuit space.
Additionally, after I was getting back onto the dating scene, my sister advisable this bikini trimmer. I attempted it and appreciated it, and now I take advantage of it every time I’m within the temper — most likely each couple months — to have much less hair, with no need to totally shave or wax. It’s utterly painless and sort of enjoyable to mess around with.
Ideas? So curious to listen to what you do and the way you are feeling about it! Each physique is completely different, and other people have all types of preferences and experiences. As with all physique/intercourse/parenting/relationships/life questions, “Good for her, not for me.” xoxo
P.S. Twist: I like the word “moist”, and did you have sex on your wedding night? Additionally, five ways to talk to kids about consent, and why I regularly talk about periods with my sons.
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